“Do I want to be
a mom?”
Can you truthfully answer this question and feel satisfied with your
answer? If you said yes, read
no further.
However, if
you’re still struggling to find out if you want children, it’s time to stop
waiting for the answer to come to you. It probably won’t. But you can actively
participate in a program that provides a step-by-step process that will help
you gain the clarity to make a decision that feels right for you.
There are times
in life where some guidance can help us decide what we want. If you’ve been
asking the same question for months or even years, then this is the moment to
take action. If your pro and con list worked, I doubt you’d be reading this
blog. I’m not discrediting a pro and con list: it’s a very effective tool—when
it works! But if you’re no closer to your truth after several attempts, you
have to try another strategy. Performing an exercise that continues to end in
futility is like repeatedly opening a refrigerator door wanting some invisible
food to be inside. It will not magically appear. You have to go to the store
and purchase your desired food. If you want the answer to your motherhood
query, you have to try another plan.
It’s possible that
there are underlying issues blocking you from making a decision. After my
twenty years of experience working with women who felt choked by their
indecisiveness, I can safely say it’s not your fault that you don’t know. And I
can also assume there’s a good reason why you don’t know. Stop the self-blame
and treat yourself with compassion. It’s painful not to know the answers you
seek, but it can be rewarding to accept the help offered from the Motherhood—Is it for me? Program ™.
Make 2013 be the
year you learn what you really want.
The next group
program begins in September 2013.
Private sessions
can begin any time in person or via phone.
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